不能改變的話

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不能接受的事情,就靠自己的努力使它變成你能接受的;接受那些已經不能再改變的事實。

不能改變的話

都説戀愛中的女人智商為零,這一點我深信不疑。更加無可否認的是,戀愛中的女人同時也是最美最可愛的。那種狀態是偽裝不了的,勉強不來的。等到心死了、愛涼了,一切塵埃落定時,才會覺察到之前的行為是多麼的愚蠢可笑。

每段愛情結束之後,最傷人的就是那些諾言了。當初的信誓旦旦皆幻化成泡影,曾經的柔情蜜意都變成了一把利劍,直直地插進心窩子裏,把自己傷得血淋淋的,疼得撕心裂肺……

然而,我們沒有理由去埋怨什麼。要相信,當初説出那些諾言都是發自肺腑的,畢竟,當時愛得那麼深。而如今,不愛了,那些承諾也就不作數了。

時過境遷,既然緣分盡了,就應該學着釋懷。無論曾經多麼的美好,畢竟都已經回不去了,再執着於過去,也沒有任何意義。不如瀟灑放手,放自己自由,淡然一笑,還自己一份雲淡風輕。

學着去感激,感激這段愛情給予自己的磨礪,讓自己成長起來。相信更加成熟的自己,將會遇見更美的愛情。

最重要的是,記着不要再輕易許諾了。承諾是一把包裹着糖衣的利劍,吞下了它,就得承受它可能隨時會帶來的痛苦。除非就一直愛下去,別讓甜蜜消褪了、融化了,否則都將經受無可避免的疼痛。愛得多深就會傷得有多痛。

現世的'愛情,總是為鮮花巧克力所包裝,呈現出美好的假象。然而,所有的愛情最終都會趨於平淡,生活最終還是要回歸現實。現實生活是什麼?就是沒有所謂的死生契闊、沒有理想中的海枯石爛,人的一輩子太短暫,也見證不了滄海桑田,而白頭到老的又有幾人呢?

生活就是如此現實,殘酷的挫敗着僅存的一點點夢想。做人呀,還真不能太清醒了,糊塗的好呀。糊塗了就不會去計較誰愛誰比較真,糊塗了就不會去在乎誰誰誰説的是真話還是假話。在漫長的人生道路中,一路走來的艱辛在告訴你人生是要遵循着軌道而行的。那曾經的信誓旦旦,誓要玩轉地球的雄心,曾讓路過的人都為之敬佩鼓掌,但同時他們每每在結束讚美話語時,也不忘説聲“年輕真好”這句話!是啊,就是因為年輕,心中有一個要飛的夢想,就如你知道那幼嫩的脊背上永遠也長不出如天使般的雙羽般,你也堅信奇蹟可以出現。因為年輕,你覺得你擁有了豐富的資本去拼搏,去改變命運,縱使知道青春轉眼即逝。

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非常經典有深度的電影英文台詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最後成為記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

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